What No One Tells You About Divorce

There are a few things that nobody wants to tell you when you’re going through a divorce, but there are many things people will say…

Getting To Know You Before Love

Slow. The word itself glows if you give your eyes a moment with it — not exactly the most typed-out word in my emails and text conversations.  Frustration is often my initial reaction when I text or type the word “slow,” usually coupled with grumbling disappointment for something being “too slow.”  It’s as if my secret mantra is, “if it takes a while, then it is not worth my time or my energy.”


Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for All Your Loves

Interested in spreading the love beyond romantic relationships this Valentine’s Day? Everyone enjoys an unexpected gift of love and we’ve compiled some of our favorites to start you off. Enjoy!




Wanted: True Love and Other Imposters

We all want it, don’t we? That other half. That plus one. That counterpart through all of life’s storms. We want to be seen, known, valued. We want to be partners with someone so that burdens are lessened and joys are heightened. Through all of the storybooks and rom-coms, big dreams and small cries of heart, true love beckons.


The ‘Mmmm’ Word: Should We Feel Bad About Feeling Good?

Why am I so compelled to masturbate?… Should I feel guilty?… Does it make me perverted or weird? These are the most common questions I’ve heard over the past 20 years of speaking and writing on the topic of healthy sexuality, so I was delighted when Disfunkshion asked me to write this article.